Rewiring Your Beliefs About Money And Energy

Right. Let’s talk about money properly.

Not in a flashy way. Not in a look at me way. In a real way.

Because most people treat money like it’s something you don’t talk about… while it quietly controls decisions, stress levels, relationships and freedom in the background.

We open this one up from the start.

The stuff we absorbed as kids.
 Don’t talk about wages.
 Always pick the cheapest.
 Money doesn’t grow on trees.
 Be careful, be safe, don’t risk.

Those lines don’t just disappear. They become programs. And without realising it, you either avoid money, obsess over it, or sabotage yourself the minute you start earning more.

Two people can be in the same role, same industry, same hours… and one earns double. It’s not just skill. It’s not luck. It’s perceived value. Clarity. The way they carry themselves. The way they ask. The way they position what they do.

Money responds to confidence and direction.

But earning is the easy bit.

Keeping it. Growing it. Using it properly. That’s where most people fall down.

So we break it down simply.

A clean allocation structure.
 Cover your costs.
 Pay yourself.
 Invest.
 And still have money to actually enjoy your life without guilt.

We talk about spending for return. Skills. Health. Tools. Environments. The things that multiply you, not drain you.

There’s also a quick self check in there.
 Are you avoiding your banking app?
 Or refreshing it every five minutes?

Both are signals.

And here’s the shift that changes everything.

Money isn’t just a number in an account. It’s stored effort. It’s choice. It’s options. It’s time.

When you connect it to a real reason, more time with your family, travel, building something meaningful, creating without pressure, the numbers stop feeling heavy and start feeling purposeful.

This episode is about balance.

Not chasing.
 Not hoarding.
 Not pretending it doesn’t matter.

Using money to expand your life, not define your identity.

If you’re ready to stop reacting and start choosing, listen in. Take notes. Run the audit.

Drop one old belief about money this week.

Build a better story.

That’s how you change the outcome.

Transcript

Welcome Back & Last Episode Wins

SPEAKER_00 0:18

Hello, welcome back to another episode of the Will's Way Quantum Podcast. Hope everyone's keeping blessed. Everyone that locked into the last one, and a couple of messages actually, you know, a couple of people actually start looking to start some businesses and they said that was some good advice. And that's, you know, I think for me, that's what this is about, really. Do you know what I mean? If one little pointer could help someone get to the next stage, which was great. So that was a great podcast. But obviously, today I think what we're going to move on to is money. Okay. It's always elephant in the room. A lot of people don't like talking about it. I don't know why. I think that's also a really detrimental thing. I think, you know, that people don't like talking about it or what they earn. It's very kind of a secretive thing in the UK. And, you know, salaries is always rude to ask ones what their what their salary is and all the rest of it. And I think this kind of perception is kind of holding people back, and we're kind of all working within that mass mind. And I think when you are at that frequency and you have that relationship with money in that negative way, you don't attract as much and you can't attract as much to you. And I think we're all a victim of this, and this is something I've been a victim to for many years. Everyone is, you know, everyone grows up in this kind of money doesn't grow on trees, money is a scarce kind of environment. And our belief systems are very attached to the fact that it's scarce and there's not a lot of it, and we must be able to, you know, really try to look after it and all the rest of it. And I know the saying look after your money and it looks after you, which is very true. But there's two different ways you can look at that, and there's two different perceptions. So my relationship with money is quite funny as well, to be fair, because I was very much on that way. I remember being young, like my father was so like obsessed with just saving, never really spending anything, very scarce, always buying the cheapest thing on the menu, and that that that type of mentality actually rubbed off on me. I remember being like that in my teenage years of just you know, going, all my mates would be buying, like we go to McDonald's, for example, they'll go get everything, and I'll just get like the savers menu.

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You know what I mean?

Scarcity Stories From Childhood

Subconscious Programming And Beliefs

Frequency, Vibration & Emotion

Law Of Attraction Demystified

Mindset Versus Mechanics Of Earning

Earning, Saving, Investing Balance

Social Media, Comparison & The How Trap

Self‑Sabotage And Awareness

Auditing Your Money Relationship

SPEAKER_00 2:11

And I don't know, I don't know why I was doing it, it was kind of like a it was like a weird attachment to it. But these are the things as well that we have to understand that a lot of our belief systems and also a lot of our like ways that we deal with stuff now is programmed when we're younger, and I think a lot of people aren't aware of that, and there's a lot of these subconscious, you know, subconscious programs running, derailing us from where we're going. Um and money beliefs in terms of what we believe with money is one of them, it is one of those things that is gonna really be impactful in our lives if we don't understand the subconscious kind of realities we've grown up with it and our relationship with it, because it is a relationship, like it's not just a thing money, money is very important to our life in terms of us being able to be have freedom and be able to do the things we want to do, and also it can be you know, if you've got a poor relationship with it and in the converse way, and all you care about is that, then it's gonna ruin your life as well. So it's it's it's a real balance if I'm if I'm being honest, and I think a lot of people are always, you know, you look at it, always chasing the pound. Of course, we are, because it's what it means to the person if they get it and what they can do with it. But sometimes just by attaining it can be a bad thing because if you're not doing anything with it that's positive, or you know, you're not using it to be able to grow, if you're just trying to build it up and just keep it and constrict it, then I think that's the real negative thing, and I think then it becomes a numbers game and a KPI game just to be able to say, Well, this is how I'm going to measure my success, which isn't always the way success can be measured at all. Like, like we said in that legend planner kind of podcast, it's about how balanced are all of these things on the table, and that's what real success looks like. Finance and wealth is just one section of your life, but it does allow you to actually, you know, if you do improve that area, improve every other area if you have the right perception to it. So the first thing is this what I want to talk about within this is frequency and kind of where we're at. And when I say frequency, I'm not trying to be like I think a lot of people can listen to these words of frequency and energy and spirituality and think, oh my god, this is all a little bit like you know, a bit fantasy and fantasized. But when I talk about frequency, frequency is very real. Every single thought, every feeling has a certain frequency element to it, and it's the same with like what I do with my job. So, like, fortunately, I understand how vibration analysis works, okay? And I've I've studied vibration machinery for 10 years. I'm an expert in it in my field, you know, we've built a business from it, and it's so valuable what we do, and there's lots of kind of things, even with that, like resonance, for example, um, a natural frequency of a structure is met by a natural force and frequency, it will vibrate to destruction basically. It's the same concept that we're seeing with our feelings in regards to what feelings are we eliciting, because every single emotion that we have is attached to a certain frequency that we're giving off to the universe. All right, you might not see it, but we don't see electricity, okay? We don't see we don't see a lot of things that that are within us today. So these things are real, you know, your emotional content, and this is exactly why when you walk into a room, you can feel this off because the the reason being is you're feeling the frequency that's been emitted by someone else with their emotional state, and that's why it's always you can feel you can feel it, can't you? You feel it with your gut. So there's a lot of feeling things we can do within our life that that are so important for us to read and understand. And if you can think about that frequency element, is whatever emotions or whatever you're pulling off is emitting that type of frequency to the universe, which is the receiver, and what happens is you know, from that, when you're pulling off these emotions consistently every single day, your frequency is gonna match or your environment is gonna match the frequency you're giving off. Do you know what I mean? So the idea is to raise that frequency and raise the way we're feeling, and it's not just purely based on what we think, it's on how we actually feel. That's where the the kind of feeling energy goes off. It's a real, it's it's you don't think about what the thought is. The thought generally prompts the feeling, so that feeling state will then attract what we need to. So if you're in this state of being low and you're always scarce and you and you're always thinking the world's against you, and you've got this kind of mentality and perception that you know your money's been drained and it's just everyone's out to get you, and you've got this real restrictive kind of protective thoughts over it, it's never gonna be able to be in a place, your frequency to give off a place of abundancy and matching the frequency, and having something that is like you know, more expansive to your thoughts. And this is where you're reading a lot of books of the law of attraction, it's like think it, feel it, be it before it happens. This is why they're saying that. Because what what we're trying to do here is be able to emit the frequency that we want to try to attract, but we've got to also believe it, and we've also got to keep it consistent. If you're more negative with your thoughts with money than you are positive, I'm sorry, that's you're the pull of the resistance is gonna go to the least path. It's always been the case with everything, even electricity, you know, always goes to the lowest path of resistance. So you have to really understand. Well, what is my mindset right now? Do you know what I mean? How do I actually think about what is my natural response to certain scenarios? A bill comes in, what's my response? Something I need to pay, what's my response? What's the feeling towards it? Am I feeling scarce? Am I feeling protective over it? Am I feeling, you know, is it is it giving negative emotions to the situation? Or is it a case of, ah no, I can deal with that. I'm good, I feel good, I feel in control, I've got money sitting there, I've got savings. You know, is it is it what kind of way is it? Because what you have to also remember is obviously I get it, we have to render services to be able to attain value and money. But the thing is, with it, there's lots of different profession jobs in out there, and the question is, why does someone in the same profession able to earn three, four, five times the amount of money as someone else who's in the same profession? What is the difference? Is it hard work? Is it really hard work? Is it working effectively? But also is it mindset in the way that we're feeling about what we're doing and the positivity that we can bring to these certain things? So you've got to think as money is not as a tangible thing. You've got to think of it as energy, as as something that is currency, but it's not the physical paper that you hold, it's not the physical or digital number you see in your bank account. It's almost like the way that you live your life as a philosophy, as an abundance or a flow that comes in that allows you to be able to do what you need to do. And generally, I do feel the more value that you attribute to other people, that number should be a lot higher. Do you know what I mean? And again, you know, you could be able to be very good at creating money and earning money, but also, are you good with saving it? Are you good with investing it? And and that's another thing as well. A lot of people are very good at making money because making money is a lot easier than it is to invest it and start doing good things with it. And it sounds crazy, but you have to remember only a very small percentage of the population have good net worth because of what they've done with the money they've earned. A lot you hear about it all the time, you hear about the footballers, don't you, that have had an incredible career, but because they weren't wise with with the wages that they had at the time and they weren't investing that money and they were just spending it, their careers are fairly short. And when it ends, you where has it gone? If you've not bought anything that is going to be able to add value in the future, and it, you know, liabilities as asset and liabilities, but if you've done that and then have not been able to retain any value, you've got anything left. So it's not really all about just the ability to be able to earn it, it's also having the mindset and knowing how to look after it, how to save it, how to invest it, but also not to be scarce with it, because that's always a very paradoxical thing. A lot of people kind of say is like, well, okay, if you want me to be kind of abundant, then I don't want to be reckless. But being abundant doesn't mean being reckless, it means saying, look, I'm expansive and I'm not scarce, I'm still here, I'm still spending money, but spending money like positively on the things that are gonna give me a return in the future. Do you know what I mean? And I think this particular mindset, which is I love really, I think a lot of people right now, especially younger generation, right? We've got TikTok, we've got all like the social media and stuff like this, and this is you know gonna be out there on these platforms as well. Like when I grew up, I didn't have TikTok, it wasn't like that. But now you get to see a lot of, you know, depending on the algorithm, a lot of the younger men are looking to earn money, and they're obviously seeing a lot of that content come to them. But it seems to me that a lot of people are very focused on the how and not about changing perception to what to to actually really gain that. And and that's something that we don't get taught at school, you know, we don't get taught this anywhere, but like I've only read this in books in terms of the way that I've looked at it, and also it's about self-reflection of how you've grown up as well. I mean, like we don't really, as people want to go back to then trauma experiences when we were kids, and and and shit was like shit. We don't want to do that, our brains are trying to actually protect us from that. So, self-awareness is really difficult to understand, like what my subconscious programs sabotage me on the day to day. I don't want to be not, I don't want to be acting this way, and this is always really, really like evident for me because if if I really realise that some of my actions or I'm not doing some of the things I'm I'm I I know I should be, it's not as if I don't want to do them things, but then I've I really look at it and I think, is it self-sabotage? Is there something there that's that's almost like convincing me not to do it? And it's true because you don't want or not want to do it, and and if you did them things, we'd you'd truly benefit from doing it, and subconsciously, this is the thing with with a lot of our belief systems. I don't think we actually aware, I don't think we actually know that these self-sabotage programs are running all the time, and and if they weren't, we would be so much closer to success, you know what I mean? Because as humans, we all want to progress, man, we all want to be able to improve our situations regardless of where you're at and how driven you are. It's a natural kind of thing, and want to be able to do. So I think understanding money is more a case of like great, okay, there's obviously lots of ways to earn it, but this podcast is not really in terms of well, how do I earn it? That's a for another day. This is more of a how do I, what is my perception to it and how do I, what is my relationship to it? And that is what I think a lot of people need to do is understand the relationship with that. Are you checking in on your bank every day and checking it, or are you that type of person that literally purposely doesn't look? Do you know what I mean? And they're the two extreme examples because if you're that person that doesn't even dare look at their own bank account, there's a problem. Like mentally, there's an issue. Do you know what I mean? Like with that relationship. Like, you don't want to look at it, you you're scared to look at it, you know you've got a spending problem, whatever. You don't want to face reality. And I think whenever you're trying to pull yourself out of reality, you've got to have a reality check to say this ain't gonna be healthy for me. Like, where am I gonna go from here if I can't even realise a real situation where I am? Another thing is as well, is like, you know, when you do get a large paycheck coming or whatever, how do you distribute it? Are you are you really looking at say, well, are you looking after you in the future or are you looking after you now? Do you know what I mean? Little things like that are really kind of indicators to what you want to do, and that each of their own, everyone, I think, as well, here can do what they want with their money, you know. Some people go on holiday, some people live for the now, and you know what? I don't even I don't even diss it. I think you you may not be here tomorrow, mate. You know what I'm saying? It all depends on the universes and the higher powers plans or whatever. And and I don't even disagree with that, you know. I think if people want to live by that, that's that's not personally how I would want to arrange mine, but you know, I'm more in between of trying to do that, but also looking for the future and investing and I'm trying to try to keep in the middle. I don't want to be one end of the spectrum or not, but look each to their own to what they want to do with that. But I mean, for me, it's about understanding the real relationship you've got with it, regardless, you know, because if you can't really realize the way that you have a relationship with it, you're never gonna be able to capitalise on it, you're never gonna be able to make it work in your favour. Do you know what I mean? And we can talk about law of attraction. I talked about that a lot in previous podcasts, and you know, basically the feeling part and the frequency part is that kind of scientific way of breaking down the law of attraction. I think the problem is with that word now, law of attraction, it's got all it's got mystic, like mystical. It's being made into something that's like magical and like and fantasy, like almost like fantasy. Do you know what I mean? And like that's not that's not it for me. Like, this is science. This is this is this is engineering, this is energy, this is energy transfer. When you look at physics, all of the same principles of electrical principles and physics principles align with the exact same principles with with with you know frequency, energy, and and obviously resonance and attracting things. Uh for me, it's not it's not easy it's not difficult to disbelieve for me because I understand uh the actual you know science behind what's happening, and also I'm proof of that because when I when I do it, I the feedback loop for me is getting the result. So this is also what you what we're doing with even with our job, we're we're collecting information or data, then we're making a decision on that based upon the facts that we get back from it. Do you know what I mean? So I think the question to ask yourself is right, if you're not financially, if you are not financially where you are right now or you want to be, right, ask yourself the question, what is my relationship to money? Is it a good one and is it a bad one? And think of that relationship as a person, all right, that you love or you're like your wife or husband, right? And then think about am I treating it right? Do we have a good relationship? Am I giving off what I'm giving back? Am I, you know, looking after it for the future? Do you know what I mean? Am I am I able, am I positive to it, am I talking right to it? Uh you know what I mean? And I think when you do that, if the question and and and and you think to yourself, I'm not treating that person very well, that is a reason why your money situation is exactly where it is. That is the reason. Because you can do what you want, and you can do any job you want, and another job might earn you more. It might do, it might earn you another 200-300 quid more a month. But if your relationship is shit with money, that doesn't matter. The 300 quid is just gonna be spent somewhere. You're not gonna capitalize on it, and it'll get sucked up into your poor way of thinking or your faulty thinking about money and and the way that it leaves you, right? We've got to think of it as an energy, and this is really difficult for people to do because it's a tangible thing for some people, it's it's a number or it's uh notes, but it's not that, it's an energy, it's how we can organise and live our lives, and how do we actually have freedom and flow and movement to be able to do what we need to do? So, you know, before I started my business, I wouldn't be able to do the things I need to do now. So, money for me, like now, when I see it coming in for the business, I don't see it as a tangible thing. I feel I see it as experiences. The more that comes in, and the more that I've got in the pipeline allows me to be able to live my life in the way that I want to live it. So, so my why to be able to push and be able to do what I need to do in my business is based around me wanting to go see the world and also me wanting to do that with my family, and that's a huge why for me. But this is why also that positive why then has a reflection on what I'm doing at work. I'm not gonna put the extra hours in, and and when I do understand and realize my why, I'm like, yeah, do you know what I am? I'm gonna do this because we need to go on that holiday, we need to go see Japan, we need to go see America, and I think this is the thing, you know. The reason why I do this because I want people to realise for them that they can have a life they always dreamed about, but they've got to get over their own personal self-belief systems, and it is hard, it's difficult. I think this is why a lot of people say, Oh, making money's easy. Yeah, okay, it might be, but retaining it if you've got a really poor belief system that was trained into you as a kid is not is not easy to get over, it's not because it's it's deep-rooted, and you have to cut you have to overcome these things, and this is the thing as well with it, like it may seem so easy for some people. I mean, it might be for some people to be able to do that because their belief systems maybe they had someone or had they were growing up around someone who had a business, and I also think for my kids as well, which is actually really ironic, because they've grown up with me being like this, it's gonna be completely opposite to like the way that I was growing up. I I grew up. Do you know what I'm saying? They're going on these places, they're going to you know these places, and of course, I always teach them the value of it, but I also teach them that it is an energy, and it the way that you think of it and and the positive element with it is important, and also to value it, of course. You know, if you don't value something, how are you ever gonna be positive with it as well? Do you know what I mean? So I think it is really based around how we grew up, kind of a relationship with it, what is our perception to it, do we think of it as a tangible thing, or do we think of it as like actual energy or actual a way to live your life and what you're doing with where you're going, and that that why that I talked about as well is so important. This is why setting the goals are important. If you don't really know what you want to do or want to go, you've got no why, you've got no driver for the why, and then you've got no reason really to go get what you need to get. Do you know what I mean? And this is the thing that I feel like everyone here, of course, they want to like I think always the aim is to be able to advance through your career, but what's the reason for that really? It is to earn more money, isn't it? That's the why, so that's why people do it. But then where's the why behind wanting to do that? People don't have one. I generally feel like a lot of people will do that, get the house, great, get all the things, go on the holidays, and there might be more holidays, it might be a bigger house that drive that why. But where's the other real goals that you've got around it? And I think if you can make them clearer, I think you'll make more. I think the people that actually have goals and actually have them written down are ten times more likely to earn more money because they've got more of a wire pulled to be able to pull them to where they need to be. And the thing is as well, with this, and that's why I love this podcast, doesn't matter where you're starting at, I'm still on my journey anyway. I'm not nowhere near to where I want to be, but I'm obviously a lot further along from where I started. But look, wherever you are on this journey, whether you're just starting out or because I've been there and I to be honest, started maintaining nine years ago, and I remember the first year of business, I was on my knees, mate, in terms of like it was hard, it was difficult, and we've turned like you can go so far from a year, but you might have to spend five years struggling to get that one year, if that makes sense. That is one thing that I've definitely learned and maintain, you know. Like we literally went for our year accounts yesterday, and you know, we did so well last year and turned it around hugely to where we were at, but also goes testament to the thoughts and the play into investment and investing and stuff like that. So, yeah, guys, I thought, you know, a bit of a quick podcast to come on here. I thought, you know, I was on the run this morning and I was like, what can we what can we talk about? And I did think about this relation to money and the energy and money energy. I don't know what I'm gonna call it yet, maybe um money's energy or the relate our relationship to money or whatever, but I think when you start looking as a at perception and and and mindset, the way you do it, and you change it around from just being a tangible thing, I think you can start to understand it. And it's getting into the steps of a being self-aware of your relationship, and that's not easy to do, but when you are aware of it, at least you know you can make changes. Once you know what the relationship is, improve that relationship. Do you know what I mean? You know, and this is what affirmations and stuff do work because you just you have to reprogram yourself to think differently to the way you react to it, and you've got to do that by prompting yourself and remember reminding yourself and consistently doing that because you're not used to doing that as a set point, and also having a good why behind why you're doing it. Because when you get that and you can listen the feeling of the emotions of improving your family's life, that's a huge pull and huge drive, emotional drive for you to. To do what you need to do, and that could be anything. Might not be family, it might be other things, it might be travel, whatever you want it to be. Just create that goal that allows you to be able to do that and render it. And then listen to the next podcast. Well, the last podcast of starting your own business. Because if you can get that mindset right and you've got something you love and you're good at doing, listen to that podcast to be able to kick it off. So, guys, I thought I'd just jump on real quick one today. Hope everyone's keeping well. Um, got plenty of ideas in the pipeline. Also, I've got a few guests I want to bring on here as well. I've been a little bit like I've got some good ideas, I just want to make sure that we hit the two a month target that I've set that I said in the legend plan. Mate, this is keeping me accountable, right? Well, it should be anyway. So, yeah, we're doing it, we're still here, we're we're we're we're plugging away and keep it blessed, people really appreciate all the support. Take care.